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Its been a long , long years of setting aside myself in the corner. There has been so many experiences in my life that i have not recorded because of my busy life. Its been a year and a half. Everything has change. I know this is a total renovation of my  self especially in matters concerning my work  and the people around  me.  From private  work to public work. So many things  had changed. The people I met, the people i mingled everyday. I think time for me to record all of this and I believe this year  is the best year  to write a history.

I never thought of losing the person that I care and love most. Sometimes when we are in love we would always say “I love you” every day, every minute, to the person we care and love.  We always extend sweet words and so many kind of endearment.  We often send SMS messages every morning or even call, every time we are missing him or her.  But what if these things we do are not enough?  What if the person we care and love would not respond anymore or he / she would just pretend that he feels the same way, yet he does not.  Many relationships had been devastated just because they failed to communicate one another, or they don’t have already the “spark”.  The words of endearment are sometimes not enough. What then is enough? I wrote this blog article not because I wanted to give tips on how to overcome such kind of situation but I just wanted to express my feeling because I feel the same way too  I am extremely in the verge of emotional dilemma at thi...

It was the most terrible experience I’ve ever had in my twenty seven years of existence in the world travelling from my home Balut Island going to General Santos City. I thought I could not see the wonderful  world that time. The dreadful feeling while on the vessel that time made me realized how difficult it is to travel. It was like you are facing death every moment you step on the vessel. You will always have the fear what life awaits as you cross the vast ocean of Balut Island and  Sarangani. The ferocious growl of the wind, the sharp and edgy drops of the rain coordinated with giant waves made my trip fearful.                           November 7, 2013 6:45 AM I woke up late in the morning feeling in pain of throat and some parts of my body due to stress of visiting a house of one of the students at night of November 6,  as part of our responsibility as teacher that you really...

THE LOST ONE I’m so confuse today. I wanted to scream and shout just ease my pain. Maybe because I was a little bit distracted with family problems and other things. I am so tired for this past few months , I thought I couldn’t carry those loads I have in my back. I miss those days when  I’m  in trouble somebody would come and say “ you can do it friend”. I miss those days when I’m lost somebody would say “ hey here’s the right path” now, I have nothing but myself alone in this dark cold room.  I never dream to  end up my life like this. I promise.  I don’t want that the turning pit of my journey is just as simple as this, lying in the corner and watching the blank faded wall counting the tick of the clock.  Sometimes I ask myself, am I  lost? Before I  dream to be like this, now that everything has been  granted  feels like nothing but empty again.  Why can’t I feel so happy and problem-free.  Why can’t I feel Ok,...

Land of Bondage, Land of the Free by Raul S. Manglapus Compiled by : Jessemar J.Wao ( I do not own this piece; this is written originally by Raul Manglapus. This is just for educational purposes. I performed this piece when I was in Grade Five) Once upon a time, the tao owned a piece of land.  It was all he owned.  But he cherished it, for it gave him three things, having which, he was content: life, first of all; and liberty, and happiness. Then one day the Spaniard came and commanded him to pay tribute to the crown of Spain.  The tao paid tribute.  And he was silent - he was certain that he was still the master of his land. The Spaniard became rich.  But with riches, evil entered into him and he came to the tao a second time.  He read to the tao a formidable saying,  “According to this decreto real, which unfortunately you cannot read, this that you have been paying me is not tribute but rent, for the land is not yours but mine.”  The tao p...

DOOMSDAY: IS THE WORLD CHANGING OR ENDING? By:   Jessemar J. Wao Last   week we heard the news over television and radio about the disaster happened in Negros Oriental   where intensity 6.9 magnitude earthquake attacked the place. It was horrible situation, too many lives were loss, too many hearts were hurt and in grief for   the lost of their loved ones.   I saw a man interviewed he’s one of the geologist and said that the said earthquake was new to them and they never expect that it would happen in that place. It was Saturday night, me and my brothers and sisters were watching a film entitled 2012 Doomsday. The story was all about the predictions that the world might end this year 2012. I know that it was just a film , a combination of human’s imagination and the computerized visual effects. The film was good it all started with the scene from the outer space, the earth’s rotation then a group of experts   in the Mexico near in the volcano. An earth ...

SECRETS IN INFLUENCING PEOPLE THROUGH EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION By : Jessemar J. Wao Accordingly teaching is one of the noblest professions among the professions in this world. No brilliant engineers, accountant, managers if they were not taught by brilliant teachers. Teaching is about influencing people, students, young professionals and the like. For almost six years of teaching college I have encountered so many types of students. Others are easy to influence, yet there are still students that are very difficult to influence in terms of presenting my lecture. I made self evaluation and assessment for me to realize what are the things that I need to change in terms of my ways and strategies in teaching. I also read books about public speaking and I have learned about some creative techniques on how to be an effective communicator. I have read book entitled Think of Your Feet the Art of Thinking and Speaking Under Pressure written by Kenneth Wydro which I find it very useful. He ...