ETIQUETTE FOR GAY DATING (Valentine Tips)

 DO'S AND DON' TS FOR GAY DATING

Being a gay is not an easy  life. You will experience a lot of problems in dealing with the community, especially  when you are not appreciated by your family. Humiliations, discrimination and other  negative treatment from the people around you.  Many people treat gays like monsters, or a sick person carrying  contagious disease. it hurts but true.  Psychologically  when  this  situations occur gay person's esteem lowers.  His confidence   lessens, his trust  to his self deteriorates.
 
Here's a wonderful tip which i have    taken from  the book entitled "Gay Relationship"  written by TINA TESSINA,Ph.D. A wonderful tip for this Valentine season

DO'S :

1. Do listen. Do not  monopolize the conversation   You will learn  even more about  your friend, and it will be much mo re relating to you.

2.  Do focus on friendship.   At This stage  of relationship  , there is no way of knowing  w here might it g, concentrate  on  simple      developing the friendship  aspect.

3. Do get feedback. Find out where your date  enjoyed  the time. For example   offer  your comments on the event  of the restaurant, and ask  your date what he thought of it.

4. Do let your date know it if  you enjoyed his/her company. When the evening ends, say you'd like to do it again, if that's true if you make any promises about  calling , keep them if you have decided not to continue the relationship but feel  you cannot say so, at least  do not make any empty  promises.

DONT'S:

1.  Don't be afraid   of little silence. In most cases, it is the occasional silences that allow  a conversation  to feel natural and unforced.

2. Don't make sense the main goal 

3.  Don't  get caught in a cycle of expensive dates you cannot afford. it does not  work  to go your  budget   to impress your date in the long run,  you will  just  have  to make an embarrassing confession. Furthermore it never works  to  "bribe" someone to spend time with you.